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Hi Samantha!
The sizes we currently offer are posted on each style under the Collections page. We start at 34A and go up to 42DD. In April, online only, we will have some full figure sizes available as well.

Valentines day is a great time to tell people WHAT you love about them. This is especially important for kids! To know that you not only love them because you are their mom, but because of their very special qualities- that you list, in a card, in detail- now that is a priceless gift!

I started working as an assistant to the owner of an underwear company at 19. I always wanted my own business and I created my first business plan at 21. I realized I needed at least a million dollars to start and run a traditional lingerie business properly - which I certainly didn't have!! But I didn't give up on my dream. I thought of a way to start a new type of business that would require a limited amount of working capital.

The biggest lesson is - if you have a dream, if it seems impossible, identify the obstacles and start finding solutions for each one - one by one.

So at 27 I was ready, and 7 months pregnant with my 3rd child, I took my boss out to dinner for his 50th birthday and told him I was leaving to start my own business.

15 years later, I have realized most of my dreams- I have an amazing family and company and I get to work with an incredible team of people,every day.

Most of all, I want to be the best at whatever I take on - I am still a work-in-process!

First, help define sexy for your daughter. Point out women you find sexy; that look great, but are NOT self-destructive, are not sleeping around or doing drugs. These women are sexy because they look great and obviously like themselves enough to lead responsible lives.

Are women with low self esteem really sexy? I don't think so.

Your daughter, like most young women, probably find these looks exciting because it makes her look more grown up and she thinks it makes her more attractive to guys.

Discuss how normal it is to want guys to like her, but how her self esteem cannot hinge on it.

Discuss how by dressing too provocatively she looks like she is trying too hard- and that is not sexy.



You cannot deny her sexuality or her curiousity, but you can help her be both smart AND sexy- which is quite different than stupid and slutty!

I don't know many women who love everything about their bodies. Rather than be unrealistic and say, 'we shouldn't feel that way'- take a realist look at your body type and determine what flatters you the most. The same approach works for clothing as for lingerie;

- in lingerie, if you love your chest and legs, but not your middle, try great chemises that can remain ON in the bedroom

- in clothing, find the jacket length that plays up your strengths - luckily everything is now in style and available in jackets, from swing styles, to crops, to longer jackets to duster length jackets - everyone can look great once they find their best 'look', and then really feel confident - and that is smart and sexy!

I am inspired by the women who came before me and had to make real sacrifices to succeed. I am so grateful for those that stood up for themselves and made things so much easier for me!

Great question! You must be comfortable IN ORDER to be sexy!

By comfortable I mean;

- comfortable in your own skin; flaunt your best features, and camouflage those you don't like as much!

-comfortable with the people you surround yourself with

-comfortable with a situation you put yourself into

-comfortable in the lingerie you wear; both that it really fits you AND that it is something that represents YOU! If you feel ridiculous or overexposed, you wont feel comfortable or sexy!

I love lists - separate the 'must dos' from the 'may dos'.

-Its okay to jump from project to project as needed, but do make time to check your 'must do' list at least 3 or 4 times a day to be sure you don't miss a deadline.

-If you are mid-project when you get a call, write yourself quick notes so you don't lose your creative thoughts when you take the call.

-Its human nature to do the things you like to do first, and then run out of time for those annoying projects (we all have them, and we all do this!).

Start your day doing something you've been putting off - do it for only 20 minutes, and then stop ( unless its due, and if so, do finish it now, please!)- but assuming its one of those things that isn't due now, 20 minutes isn't so bad- and in a few days, you will complete it and forever cross it off your list

Start with lists:

First, after reading your favorite magazines, list your 'must have' items, and then your 'maybe' items.

Start with the must haves - and separate that into two lists, 'wear for one season' and wardrobe staples.

Spend more on the staples and the wear-one-season items, buy as inexpensively as possible, for what I like to call 'cheap thrills'- and move on, without having done too much damage!

Flight straight to meeting? You are my kind of woman!

Business-like knits are great! Don't go too clingy or sexy for work. If you are wearing a pant suit, be sure pants aren't too tight or you will get lines from sitting. Pull the fabric up a bit when you sit. Remove your blazer, put overhead or hang, and bring a sweater or scarf, most flights get chilly!

(Try our smartandsexy bra/panty sets under business attire for that no-show, only-you-know sexy feeling all day!)

So you don't like thongs?- I hear you!

There are many beautiful boylegs that are invisible under the tightest pants- if you are in between sizes buy up a size, too tight will show through!

(Try our smartandsexy executive collection smooth sexy boylegs!- if you do want to give thongs one more try, try our 3-pack thongs, the flat super-stretchy elastic is about as comfortable as thongs get!)

Under a white tshirt- what to wear....
The question is what is your mood? And, what message do you want to convey?

*if you want the most conservative, natural looking option- wear a seamless lightly lined bra that matches your skintone most closely.

*if this is a jeans/tshirt date, and you want to look naturally sexy-try a white lace covered tshirt bra.
If your tshirt is a vneck, and you want to show some cleavage a plunge push up is a good choice.
If you are wearing a crewneck tshirt, go for a lightly lined full coverage bra to avoid the dreaded double bump!

*in vacation mode? On Miami beach, or near any beach, a hot pink bra under a white tshirt is a great option! (Try our smartandsexy sets in hot pink)

*a black lace bra under a white tshirt is certainly a sexy-rocker option- best if you are under 25 and don't expect to bump into co-workers, parents, or old boyfriends who will think you are trying way too hard!
(Try our smartandsexy lace ambition black lace bra, but I like it under a black tshirt best)